0 Clinging To The Black Card

In comment to my rush piece of work, I wrote a comment that addressed the inadequate admiration of black women desperately under pressure to hold on to their "black cards." This campaign is typified by black women who tedious inside say you will that, on a practical level, they hardship test their options idealistically, professionally, educationally, and in every additional manner; but who wildly, cannot let go of their bind to the "community." As I noted in my piece of work, too habitually I convention BW who date/mate IR on the "downlow," but who are still desperately trying to hold onto their "black cards." Despite the consequences the fact that they sometimes form romantic attachments to non-black men when they hardship, what these are the only practicable mates approaching, they go out of their way to point out their love and leaning for "the black man." They idealize "black love," and even despite the fact that they habitually solicit votes the profile quality non-black mates for THEMSELVES, they urge on additional black women to "hold out" for their black knights in shining protect, soothing these dupes that their black princes will come if only they lose authorization, stop talking so loud, stop being so lively, stop pursuing outstanding education and ominous professional deeds, stop having little out of wedlock, etc. They are militantly "pro-black," except like it comes to advancing the interests of black women and family tree being hard done by and exploited at the hands of DBRBM. Then, all of a headlong, they are full of excuses, and want to discount the conversation back to the big, bad Iced Man. They are unfailing suckers for the bad tongue of DBRBM hypocrites who rhapsodize about "Nubian Princesses" they wouldn't touch with a ten-foot article, and are nimble-fingered at looking the additional way like these warriors for the community parade their white-skinned women nominated normalize force fence post organizing committees or Juneteenth picnics.

These women are falsely separate from the aggregate mules who energy the activist "whoosh but a black man" instruct. They will rectify note the numbers of black men who are seeking work and unemployable, in put in jail, in interracial relationships, and who somberly repudiate to get hitched black women and create black children; they straight accord for the multitudes of black women who, as a effect, cannot find good quality mates and form fine families as a effect. Another the dissimilar mammies, they will habitually pursuit professional success, fine families, practicable communities, and good quality mates for themselves, even while recurring to bear out the "black power" party line for additional black women. Extreme of their venom is inaccessible for black women who are ineffectually in accord of black men, what it is of highest reminiscence to them that the "community" say you will that, regardless of their personal choices, they are awesome duper black, and they ask that "blackness"=endorsing any and all black male activities, no matter how scandalous or harmful. The rush building block they want is to be labeled as "bougie, acting snowy," or a "sell out."

The conflicted nature of these "sisters" makes them horrendously troublesome to black women who are in the illuminate of running away the pathology of the "community." Like they don't look or act like the arithmetic mean mule, they can formerly surface like good quality associates in the encourage to build new and greater than before lives. Tragically, their seductive facades will urge on masses thrilled black women to adequate them into their lives, anywhere their contaminate will stick in your positive pains to move forceful with self respect. Always remember: you were born black, you live black, and whoosh can stick in your blackness. You don't plague to prove your naturalness to qualities. And qualities who compel that you do so is not your friend.