It's irrational to think that people should focus on dating only one person at a time. However the individuals who prefer to date multiple women have a difficult time juggling more than one female. Also there are women who may judge you when you want to date more people only because they preffer a monogamous dating experience and they may not want to date you. So DON'T BARK AT THE WRONG TREE. It is simply a personal preference.
For those of you who want to keep their options open, until you meet a woman that you want to see exclusevly, you should read on. JUST LIKE MEN DATE MULTIPLE WOMEN, WOMEN DATE MULTIPLE MEN AND THOSE WHO DO IT WELL, FOLLOW SOME BASIC RULES.
HONESTY
It is important that you are forthcoming. I'm not saying that you should bring this up as your opening statement but when the question comes up it is for the best that you tell the truth about dating other women. So don't allude and don't omit information when it comes to this.
CHARACTER AND TRUST
You want to date multiple women so YOU WOULD WANT TO BE KNOWN AS AN HONORABLE AND TRUSTING PERSON. It is time for you to demonstrate it. If you're ok with the thing there's a chance she will be okay with it. A serious turn off is when you are decietful and sketchy because it gives the sense that you are insecure with your choices and you are not acting as a confident man.
I once had a casual dating relationship with a man long distance and although i made it clear i was not going to sleep with men while they were dating more women HE OMITTED HIS SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS.I DIDN'T EXPECT IT.I FOUND OUT I WAS MORE IMPACTED BY HIS DISHONESTY THAN HIS SEXUAL URGES. If he had been honest i could have been willing to re-examine the terms i have set and make a different arrangement. Instead he made me question my trust for him and his untruthfulness turned me off.
SAFETY
There are health concerns when you date multiple women and you should be aware of it. MODERN TIMES OFFER BIRTH CONTROL AND STD PROTECTION OF ALL TYPES. DECIEVING ABOUT HEALTH AND DISEASE IS SERIOUS AND YOU SHOULD CONSIDER IT DEEPLY BECAUSE IT CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS. If you tell the truth about your sexual life you give her the opportunity to choose what is best for her. This might include becoming comfortable with more bed partners. Also if you set the example, you will give her permission to be honest about HER sexual life too so EVERYONE WINS.
HOW TO MAKE IT HAPPEN
When the question arises about you dating other women, simply say YES. YOU WON'T HAVE TO SHARE MANY DETAILS (IT'S PREFERABLE THAT YOU DON'T). Even if she keeps the pressure on you to tell her more you should resume yourself to stating that YOU'RE OPEN TO MEETING AND SHARING TIME WITH VALUABLE PEOPLE. You can share your intentions but once again be honest. THIS WILL GIVE HER THE FEELING THAT YOUR IN DEMAND AND THAT YOU ARE VALUABLE.
Keep the date multiple women talk to a minimum in the beginning. If you two will spend more time toghether the topic will arise on its own. SHE WILL EVENTUALLY ASK YOU IF YOU WILL CONTINUE DATING OR IF YOU WILL DATE HER EXCLUSEVLY.
How you handle yourself during the first moments is crucial in revealing your nature and integrity. ONE THING I KNOW IS THAT WOMEN ARE BEGGING AND CRAVING FOR MEN WITH INTEGRITY. Many lost hope that men can still be respectfull and trustworthy so show them different and you will get real advantages.
BE IN A CLASS OF YOUR OWN when trying to date multiple women because doing so will separate you from your aware and less than educated counterparts.
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