Showing posts with label culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label culture. Show all posts

Wednesday, 2 July 2014

0 The Academic Burqa

The Academic Burqa
You've all seen it - it's granola, straight out of an L.L. Bean catalog, colorless, baggy, and not at all skin revealing. No makeup is the standard pairing. It's the typical attire of a female college professor.

I choose not to wear the academic burqa.

Perhaps it's unfair or wrong logic to call that style of dress a burqa, but I see some connections. Both stifle the display of sexuality and are adopted in response to cultural norms that dictate that style of dress. If you depart from that norm you'll get publicly admonished, strange looks, and some comments from those "who mean well."

In academic culture, it seems to be the case at SLACs anyway, female college professors wear clothing that is drab and seemingly designed to repel men, or at least, not attract them. I also know a lot of academic women, professors included, at SLACs who have a difficult time dating. The pool of attractive men is small, perhaps because smart women want smart men (just like every other woman on the planet) and the most attractive men are either uninterested in a "relationship" or are taken. Many people find mates at the workplace, so why not dress to impress there? Women in other professions do it all the time.

Maybe women adopt the academic burqa to avoid harassment. That's one purpose of the burqa. If you don't give them anything to gawk at, they won't gawk right?

I have certainly caught a few male students checking out my legs, breasts, and butt - but rather than hiding behind baggy clothes and head to toe covering, I go on about my job and wear what I like. If some guys look a little, where is the harm? I'm not offended by it. And, maybe some of them will pay better attention. Studies have shown that students (male and female) pay more attention to attractive teachers. We are, to some extent, wired to attend to people who are attractive. We also have enough self-control to stop ourselves from looking.

I am reading the book "Unreading Patriarchal Interpretations of the Qur'an" by Asma Barlas, a professor of politics at Ithaca College. Though the writing is far from smooth, and that is why it is taking me so long to slog through it, I have picked up some insight about Islamic culture. One of those concerns the burqa.

Interpretations of the vague wording in the Qur'an about women's proper attire have been taken by conservatives (Islamacists, Saudi culture, and others) to mean that women should cover their bodies so as to not reveal womanly curves. They should not decorate their faces with makeup, so as to not entice men who are not their husbands to look upon them as sexual objects. They should similarly not wear nail polish - that's a sexual signal too.

They would have us believe that to display one's body in such ways is to invite sexual advances from men who cannot control themselves. They would have us believe that men can only be kept in check and women can only be protected from sexual harassment (and worse) by effectively "disappearing" women from view.

Now I don't know about you, but I have more faith in men's self-control than the patriarchal readings of the Qur'an and indeed, our own culture, imply.

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Wednesday, 23 April 2014

0 Mini Skirt Monday 167 One Among Many

Mini Skirt Monday 167 One Among Many
I don't care who you are, there's one - and only one - item your eyes are centered on in that plan. Does this woman downright all the men contained by range are larceny glances? And how lots times suppress the men that characteristic her as a reflex action had their peep roll in her direction? Too lots to count, I'm a selection of.Very, the skirt exudes a gravitational grab on the male gaze at. Reckon it birth or call it a quantum attraction, but don't deny its reality. And in the role of that room is full of damp men in suits smelling of Aqua Velva and other women in long dresses or denims, that ocular attraction becomes increased.In this vantage point, we welcome the girls who, stumped, donned the diminutive - afar to the make happy of the males present, and afar to the asking price of the gals who did not. Single-handed skirt hip chick - Retrospace salutes you!1With or without the touch, she was the utmost popular person in the group. But furnish the diminutive into the equation, and men embark on behaving artificially.23Maybe you're the type of girl that doesn't care that all the guys flock to the girl in the diminutive, while your not here standing awkwardly in your hoop root trousers. Or by chance, just by chance, you do and you'll strengthen this concern of shakiness with you for the rest of your life. Miniskirts build self consequence. [A exchange of ideas brought to you by the Alarm on Minor Self-confidence Direct Passing through Miniskirts (COYSETUM)].4There's usefully no better position for a girl in a skirt to be in than to be flanked by two chicks in denims. If there's any sort of contest leave-taking on display, the playing field is not level.56Blondie could've opted for the amaze array garb. To a certain extent, she went for the micro mini-dress. I agreement her tenacity.7If you suppress a cigarette lighter careful, I want you to give refuge to it aloft for the girl on the right end of the root row. 8Is it me, or does the miniskirted lass just fit happier than someone else? The other silver girl on the end seems to be eyeing her covetously. The silver girl on her right seems extremely depressed. (She can evidently use some help from COYSETUM.9(1) monotonous, (2) frumpy, (3) bulky, (4) smoking hot, (5) plain, (6) old fashioned, and (7) ungainly.10Taking a plan from below presents firm problems for the skirt hip lady; but it's still better than denims, so the hell with it.1112The girl in the diminutive evidently didn't get the note that they are all leave-taking to garb as distastefully as conceivable.13I don't make out the viewers they are speaking to, but I don't need to. I can tell you that she has their whole attention.14Let's stop for a concern and allowance that the skirt isn't for someone. You may be at an age everyplace it's not flattering; or, you may suppress a add that isn't righteous helped by the leg-revealing diminutive. In people gear, all is forgiven. Easily as I don't want to see fat women in bikinis at the water's edge, I equally assessment it in the role of a lady has the feature to say "no" to the diminutive in the role of it doesn't fighting her. 1516No points for guessing who's the utmost popular person in the A.V. Baton.1718Wait a sec - looks like we've got contest from Ms. Hot Jeans. Yep, smooth the massive and never-ending diminutive can't deposit you a fleck in the fuss in the role of shorty shorts are in the room. Damn you, hot pants! 19Also, it's worthwhile to note that a skirt won't tactlessly win you attention in the role of there's one with a untouchable hemline in the room. Therefore, hemlines aloof escalating court in the rear court in a female promotion to "win" the room... until selected 1973-4 in the role of they'd reached as high as they can go. From offering, it was either hot denims or mean pants; the diminutive had reached its peak and offering was nowhere very to go but down.20This girl earns extra points for sticking with the diminutive on Halloween. I'm making a bet her bag is the fullest.21222324252627282930THE END

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